What are you saying to yourself and, do you believe what you tell yourself? The negative voice loop in your mind is a liar. I can’t count the number of times I played the victim mentality loop…. ‘I’m not worthy, I’m not good enough, I’m too fat, ugly, shy, stupid’. Enough! We all tell ourselves internal messages that create our feelings through vibrational energy. Negative messages play havoc with how we feel about ourselves, how we treat ourselves and others, and what we attract into our lives.
We may present a positive, upbeat, smiling, confident face to the outside world while telling ourselves that we ‘don’t measure up, are inadequate or phony’. If we believe the lies we tell ourselves about unworthiness, lack and limitation, this causes misalignment between what we think and how we feel. Our feelings create our actions and our actions cause reactions. What if we start using positive affirmations instead? We will attract better ideas, things and people into our lives. So many people think that positive affirmations are telling ‘lies’. What if they are the truth? What if you really are worthy? Who do you pretend to be? Who do you think you are? Where did you come from?
I believe that we are more than our physical bodies, which contain a soul that will live on after this body is dead and buried. So why do we keep believing negative ideas and the opinions of other people? What lies have you bought into? Do you think you can do better than what you are doing? Do you believe in God, or a Higher Power, or in Universal Intelligence? Do you believe that you are a divine spiritual being with an intellect living in a physical body? Then why keep criticizing ourselves and others? The more we judge and criticize ourselves the more we do that to others and, the cycle repeats in a downward spiral, hurting ourselves more in the process. Catch yourself when you start to complain, judge or criticize. Change the voice inside your head to reflect love and acceptance. Soon love and acceptance radiates from within and changes your outer world. Everyone has an opinion. Don’t let the opinions of others hold you back. Don’t let your opinion of yourself create misery and limitation. Change your inside voice to messages of love and acceptance, then you will start to see more love and acceptance in your life. Start by looking at yourself in the mirror and tell your inner being ‘I am loved, I am lovable, I am loving, I am kind, I am calm, I am confident, I am enough.’ Start to believe in your self worth and see how your life will improve in all areas.