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Self Love

self love

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “We become what we think about all day long.” Does that scare or excite you? Does it make you want to crawl back under the covers or burst forth into the day? What we think about ourselves is a combination of what others have told us and that we believe. Human beings can be programmed by the opinions of other people.  If others had negative opinions, and if we bought in to their opinions, we start to act the way they expect us to act. This creates a self-fulfilling doom prophecy. 

If we fear being alone, then the more we worry about being alone and lonely, the more of that feeling we will attract. What would it take for you to be able to forgive yourself for some of your past mistakes and start being kind to yourself? You cannot give what you do not have. You must believe you are worthy of love, and don’t settle.

Anger, jealousy, frustration, hate? Are you putting out this type of energy? Are you expecting to attract good when you are not putting out good? The Law of Polarity shows us that everything has an opposite. Love, joy and happiness vibrate at the highest frequency levels. Hold the higher vibrations as much as possible and you will soon attract the good you desire. Good vibrations attract good vibrations. Put out the energy that you want to receive. 

When you notice you’re not feeling good or are beating yourself up, be willing to put yourself in a better frame of mine. Get on a better track with positive affirmations and thinking about a time when you felt unconditionally loved. It is vital to work on your own self image. No one can rescue you; you must do it yourself. Once you learn to love yourself, and believe you are worthy of love, then you will attract your perfect match. 

Affirmations are a good start, but it takes a lot of repetition and believing the positive statements. Realize that we are all imperfect. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are worthy of receiving love. We get what we give. Be a generous giver and a gracious receiver. 

It’s a process. Fall in love with your imperfections. Fall in love with you. Other lovable people will be drawn to you. This works by law; the Law of Attraction. Law of Attraction is the secondary law to the Law of Vibration. Everything and everyone puts out an energy; vibrates at an energy frequency. This has been proven through Kirlian photography. We attract what we are in harmonious vibration with. 

Look at what energy you are putting out into the ether. Treat yourself the way you want to be treated. Treat others the way you want to be treated instead of waiting for other people to start. Knowing that we attract what we are makes me pay closer attention to my thoughts and behaviour. Ask yourself, “What would I love to experience?” Start thinking about what you would love, then pause, notice how you feel. Focus on feeling better.

Pay attention to what you are telling yourself. Watch your language. Never disrespect yourself. You are always listening to you. Think beautiful thoughts, which will start to change your feelings, which will cause you to start to take different actions. This will lead to the start of seeing better results in your life. 

Your current circumstances reflect what your thoughts were in the past. If you want better results you must start to think better thoughts. If you want to experience great love in your life, start by loving yourself unconditionally; every imperfection. Stop judging everything you say and do. Direct more joyful, positive, loving feelings toward yourself and you will experience more love in your life. It’s the law.

Susan A. McDonald

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